As a journalist and a woman, I've had a
fair-share of my eyebrow-raising moments during the course of my
career. Here are some of the things people have told/asked me:
- Why did you take up journalism? You could have done something else. (At a job interview.)
- You are too intelligent to be a journalist. (Was told after a successful job interview.)
- Are you in it for the glamour? (A Page 3 socialite asked)
- Journalism is not a profession for women. There are all kinds of people you have to meet – politicians, criminals, etc and then you may have to cover a war/blast/kidnapping. What will happen to you? (A co-passenger in a train)
- Only good-looking women are selected to work for television channels. (A male colleague)
- Men are for Politics, Crime, Sports, Business and Civic beats. Women do Lifestyle, Fashion, Films and Art and Culture. (A PR man once remarked)
- His Highness (the High Commissioner of an African country) wants to meet you. (Got a call from the Highness's office)
- People who write features are not journalists. (A male reporter)
- How can you work on a Sunday? (A guy from the media's marketing division asked. Of course, he was selling the paper's ad space)
- All journalists are chain smokers or heavy drinkers. (An old interviewee once said)
- Let's meet over dinner/drinks at some special place. (The head of a church in Mumbai)
- Women journalists always end up in unhappy marriages. (A male colleague remarked)
- Film journalists behave like filmstars. They have their own set of affairs. (PR man)
- Sub-editors are journalists? How? (A student)
- I am single and ready to mingle. (A biker I interviewed)
- We should be scared and be careful about what we talk in front of you. (A Peruvian mining official)
- When do we go on a date? (A marketing guy from the office)
- If your English is good, your Hindi must be really bad. Why else would you be working in an English daily? (When I interviewed for a job at a Hindi TV channel)
- It's a good profession for girls, only. Once you are married, then you need to settle down and do something else. (A retired Air Force officer)
- There is a lot more money than I had imagined. I thought journalists were paid peanuts. (A businessman who met a journalist on flight where they discussed, among other things, pay packages)
- It's an activity, not an occupation. (A casual remark by the HR head of a firm in Vadodara)
- Only a journalist can write in a train. (A fellow-passenger)
- How did YOU get in there? (A senior male journalist at a Gujarati paper asked when he discovered I was working as a documentation consultant at UNICEF)
Have people made some comments about you and your profession? Do write in.
6 comments:
you took up arts... why, did you not pass your 12 boards in one go???
home science! you will be taught how to be a perfect housemaker, wnt you???
Nice. Do you want to know all the things they tell to a camerawoman?
1. Hello (thinking I am the journalist although I am carrying an 8 kg camera with tripod and backbag)... and where is your cameraman?
2. Isn't this a bit heavy for you? You must be very strong, doing a lot of exercice?
3. Are you a camera"man" or how do I say that?
4. What does your husband say if you travel so much and are always around other men?
5. I have never seen a woman as a cameraman before. etc
hv been asked d 1st Q at every job interview...guess it applies 2 every profession
Excellent read.
In fact, why a journalist already? I'm facing similar questions right now only:
1. Do you have the courage of Barkha Dutt to go on wars?
2. Journalism, you are going to land up facilitating a lot of politicians , you are ready for it?
and the list is long but very unpleasant to listen.
I am sure every woman can relate to this in whatsoever occupation she might be in. Amazing article ma'am
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